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No big lessons today. Just this.

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This newsletter is shorter than usual.

And honestly? That feels a bit scary to hit send on.

But it's also the most honest thing I could write this week.

Living the message

Right now, I'm with family and friends.

Not distracted by work or thinking about what's next.

Actually here. Fully present. Phone off.

And I realized something: if I spent the next 3 hours writing a framework or strategy breakdown, I'd be betraying the exact thing I've been building toward all year.

Time with the people who matter.

So this newsletter is short. And that's the point.

The uncomfortable truth about priorities

You can talk about work-life balance.

You can preach about building a business that serves your life.

But actually doing it? Actually choosing to write less so you can live more?

That's where the rubber meets the road.

Most people (myself included, usually) would feel guilty about this. Like I'm letting you down by not delivering some massive value bomb this week.

I'm feeling it right now. Part of me wants to make this longer. Give you a useful framework.

But the truth? Sometimes the strongest move is knowing when enough is enough.

Not every week needs to be a masterclass.

What I want for you

I don't have a big strategy to share this week.

But I do want to leave you with a few questions as we head into the new year:

  1. What am I most proud of this year, and why?

  2. What lessons did I learn, often the hard way, that I want to carry forward?

  3. What am I working towards next year?

Sit with those. Let them simmer.

Next week I'll share my full reflection on 2025 and what I'm building toward in 2026.

But for now, I'm exactly where I need to be.

And I hope you are too.

Much love,

— Martijn